(Q) Dear Lady Godiva, My sexual relationship with my husband of five years is getting dull. Any ideas to put some new spice in our bedroom?

(A) If you are only doing it in the bedroom, try another room. How much spice would you like? Lingerie, bubble baths, massage, exotic oils, candles, just a few suggestions. Buy a Kuma Sutra book, eat some sex food together. Plan the romance, add some hot spice, and don't limit yourself to the bedroom.

(Q) Dear Lady Godiva, I love my husband, but everytime I go to the gym my personal trainer has a big bulge in his pant at the end of our session. (You guessed it) should I feel guilty? can I have my cake and eat it too?

(A) That's a hard one to get a handle one (no pun intended) If you were getting it at home, the cat wouldn't be nipping at dog food. Should you feel guilty? or do you feel guilty? only you can say.

(Q) Dear Lady Godiva, I am a 37 year old man who has always been attracted to women older than myself, because they posses inner beauty. My problem is my shyness. How do I let them know I am interested?
(A) Dear shy guy, Go out into the world and shine. Coming soon men’s t-shirts will be available on this website. ”Looking for BOF” - Wear it proudly!

(Q) Dear Lady Godiva, I recently had hair extensions, at the same time I found a new boyfriend. He is always trying to run his fingers through my hair. I don't want to tell him I have hair extensions. What should I do to keep his hands away from my hair?


(A) Tell him there's plenty of other places to put his fingers, besides your hair.

(Q) Dear Lady Godiva, I am always coloring my hair, now my pubic hairs are turning gray. Can I color them as well? Are there hairdressers that do this sort of thing?

(A) I haven't heard of any specialist here. I can only suggest. Lady "O" quotes, " If that pussy goes gray, and you like it that way, it's ok..or color it red, to match your head, but if you hate that gray, wax that pussy today. Go Brazilian.